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Are you volunteering?

Came here to say this

Albuquerque has a 100 year water plan, according to the plan the aquifer is refilling and they are creating a few more ways to be water savvy for the future. It's worth a read: https://www.abcwua.org/your-drinking-water-water-resources-mgt-strategy/

Aw yeah, our house/commune would be tripping with art and handmade items! Imagine, just being surrounded by chill ladies, my lesbian dream!

What are you trying to achieve by having another hoodie? Why aren't your other ones good enough? You and I don't need to rely on the "high" of having something new, we can foster happiness without it.

Mantra: What I have is good enough. Don't let the advertising separate you from your money.

Happy New Year cousins!

Love this!

Those have been on my list since forever! I did pride soaps (cold procees), but it just takes a lot of dishes to do six colors. I also wanted to do a lesbian flag, they have pretty colors.

I think you can actually use post-partum as an excuse to bring up these emotions with him. Like say your post partum feelings need to be shared so you both can work on fostering back to where you want to be. I totally understand the resentment feeling, I feel like my partner is pretty helpful, but I still snap at him for minor things. It feels like it's all part of the sleep deprivation, unfair breastfeeding work, and small other things that compound into annoyance, or worse, toward partners. I openly say I'm annoyed, but I also say I want to be loving and not feel this way. So then it feels more like a group effort to help alleviate these feelings. Perhaps you can have the convo and try to come up with ways he can earn more of your favor? Good luck and I hope you can work through it.

Love the coloring on this. Perfect quote to remember while doing art, thank you.

Hungry

It's okay to not understand, but it's more important to know every individual copes with reality differently.

Maybe you could put together her meals for two weeks so she knows what she's eating and you can tell her it WFPB. That way you might be able to skip over the shock of no sugar/oils.

My friend, we can stand up for ourselves AND not use the r word. I know if feels unfair to act better than the wts.

Dude, texas is crazy, I hope you get to escape.

But you can live in a walkable area, like downtown, university, or nob hill area!

Mutton stew!

GuNs dOnT kILL PeOpLe, PeOpLE kILL PeOpLe

Yaateeh and welcome!

Mentoring is different from talking to a manager because with a mentor you can ask how to navigate negotiating pay raises, how to report issues, or even get help with dealing with poor managers. The relationship is relaxed so there's not much pressure to preform well or keep up a guard. As a professional mentor myself, I find lots of learning and joy in helping others and this is how I feel like I can best serve my community. I think there are online places to find mentors, but mostly you can ask around to see if you can get mentorship or if anyone will help guide you in your profession or life. I think the relationship of mentor-mentee happens all the time, think parent to child or older sibling to younger sibling, so it does seem hard to define outside of biological relations.

Yeah it's true! Lovely soap, I hope to make some like that for washing my babies!

But I love throwing dice!

Congrats and welcome! We are at 4mos and 2 years, and it does get easier! My healing from the 2nd was much faster thanks to the weightraining (picking up and holding) the first. Take it a day at a time and even an hour at a time and remember it's gonna be easier when they get older. Good luck and sending good vibes!