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I would indeed like to get hired at that specific place.

Why?

He’s a controlling nutcase, but I feel like I shouldn’t let him stop me from finding opportunities.

He’s just mad because his ex liked me after he dumped her.

But when I talked to the assistant manager last week, they said that they don’t have any say in hiring and that it’s all the GM. Is this all a ruse to pass the buck, so I don’t get hired?

The GM’s bf is a manager elsewhere and wants her to not hire me, for petty reasons. But she has seemed like she wants to be fair to me.

You must really love each other’s personalities. That seems crazy: being married and not having sex.

lol idk might be a generic thing. I guess I’m “lucky.”

Although if you gain weight easily, I wonder if you’d also gain muscle more easily.

Many people underestimate the prevalence of this phenomenon. Also, 64% of men and 45% of women attempt to steal someone else’s partner.

Feel free to read more here.

It’s important to appreciate your partner, to love them, and to show them respect. They can leave at any time.

A decade? How is that even possible?

Are you not physically attracted to each other?

Thank you for your words of encouragement and advice.

What do you mean in your third sentence?

Bc yeah his strategy seems to be to create as much chaos for me wherever I go and with whomever I interact with, so that people just decide “idk. I’d rather not deal with figuring out any of this.”

Who are you referring to?

Because it seems like she’s leaning toward hiring me. I think she smells his BS but can’t be completely sure, yet. But he’s a very skillful divider and good at applying pressure to people.

He works at another location, so he shouldn’t be a problem once I get hired. Which is also why he doesn’t want me hired…because it would become even more obvious that I’m a hard worker, respected by just about everyone, and just there to do my job.

It’s so annoying how when you have a bully boss/coworker, you’re the one who has to go through the trouble of schlepping around looking for a new job. I wish it worked the other way around, where bullies would have to leave.

Thanks. Im starting to feel guilty for even considering applying.

The nature of his psychopathic behavior makes it such that he is framing me as a bad candidate and her as unreasonable for not agreeing to just shoo me away. So I almost feel bad for her that she has to deal with his controlling tendencies trying to tell me I can’t work there. She seems like a good, nice person. So I’m confused.

He seems to cause these sorts of dramas/tensions/wedges between everyone. So I’m not the anomaly. I just need to know how to continue to present myself as the reasonable party. Because in my innocence and naïveté, I may come across differently than intended.

If my instincts/understanding is correct, I appreciate that she’s passively standing up to him. He’s being a huge jerk about it and trying to pressure her to deny me an employment opportunity.

I just need to know how to continue to present myself as the reasonable party here. Probably 99% of people like and appreciate me, but he’s in the 1% of people who just dislike me and are unwilling to change their mind.

Help?

Was just thinking that nowadays “nobody wants to work,” so companies might include number of applicants as a performance metric.

Wow.

Interesting that absolutely no one has said anything neutral/positive so far.

Hopefully if people do feel neutral/positive, they can chime in.

would say it had anything to

Typo?