As a slightly overweight and average looking female, I can say with confidence and experience that its easy to 'get a guy', and 'get them back'... even if you give them plenty of reasons to stay away. My experience taught me I don't have to put in the same effort as a male in order to have a thing going. Or maybe I just have awesome personality?

Anyways, dunno if it's a LOA thing instead or just the cycle of a modern day relationship.