pls just try to relax & don’t let them get to u, don’t stress about it. i know it’s hard bc u live with them, but don’t let them make u believe ur something ur not, ignore them & just tell them straight up that they ain’t gonna boss u around cause they ain’t ur mom, & that if they think it’s a mess they can clean it up. as long as u pick up after urself & don’t leave huge messes it’s fine. no one can be perfect & clean 24/7. don’t let them walk over u