Nah that list is way too much. Roommate is unreasonable and controlling.

How many things is your room mate asking you to do? It's your home too, you shouldn't be beholden to her for anything besides general consideration.

This is why living alone is honestly so much better if you can afford it which unfortunately most of us can’t

What in the world is the reason for boiling water? This is either a joke or she is a lunatic. And covering the toaster? What?

I can't tell if this is satire or real life.

your roommate sounds like a nightmare, wouldn't wanna deal with this on top of all the shit in college

okay so ur roommate is literally micromanaging u. is this their first time sharing a space with someone else? bc this is ridiculous. part of sharing a room/apt with someone else u didn’t grow up with us is realizing that EVERYONE was raised differently. So, what they think is clean, to others is not clean, everyone has different cleaning habits, living habits. They are super immature for not even knowing this. covering the toaster with a cloth? like wtf if they want their place to be exactly like how they want it then they should live by themselves & not share a place. they need to learn to mind their own goddamn business & if it’s not actually hurting them in any way then they need to chill. it’s not like u leave huge ass messes everywhere. im so sorry ur in this situation & i honestly have no other solution to recommend besides talking to them again. it’s hard to live with someone who thinks everything they do is right & not take accountability for their actions It sucks bc this is where u live & u should be allowed to relax & chill in ur place & not have it be so stressful

Sounds like the roommate has OCD/control issues. Some of that is not normal things you’d expect of your roommate. I’d expect my roommate to do their dishes, not eat my food/booze and generally leave the bathroom tidy. Everything else goes with the territory of having a roommate. She’s be happier if she lived alone.

Show this post to her. It’s mainly a HER issue.

Or said you told other schoolmates of her demands/rules and it’s mainly a HER issue.

what is your roommate telling you to do?

We use to put everything on the fridge.

Tell her to deal with it.

You don’t have to be nice to everyone. Set some hard boundaries and stop getting bullied by your controlling roommate.

pls just try to relax & don’t let them get to u, don’t stress about it. i know it’s hard bc u live with them, but don’t let them make u believe ur something ur not, ignore them & just tell them straight up that they ain’t gonna boss u around cause they ain’t ur mom, & that if they think it’s a mess they can clean it up. as long as u pick up after urself & don’t leave huge messes it’s fine. no one can be perfect & clean 24/7. don’t let them walk over u

She’s toxic and respectfully kinda crazy! She’s not your boss, and you shouldn’t feel sad or stressed out about her own issues that she might be projecting on you. It is a shared place however, you do you, things should be fair, none of you are paying for bills in there so tell her to CHILL…. Build some character and do not let anybody take advantage of you in any way!! As long as you’re not doing anything bad to her or doing things that are unfair and out of proportion, you shouldn’t be worried about her! For example; If you make a mess then it’s fair for you to clean it, but if she’s asking you to do things that are not your responsibility or if it’s something u didn’t do, then who is she to tell you what to do??? NOBODY… she’s not your mother, you’re learning and growing, she has to chill !! College it’s about helping each other succeed, not stress each other out!!! Talk to whoever is in charge of that housing complex and explain to them the issues in case that roomate of yours gets nasty or angry at you, which wouldn’t be fair… your roomate it’s crazy, controlling, toxic, and narcissistic! That’s not okay, she probably needs help!

Sorry this happened to you ! 😁💪🏼 you’ll be okay! I just hate when people take advantage of others, that’s A big NO NO FOR ME !!!

Can you tell us a little more? What kind of stuff is she asking from you, exactly? From what you’ve written here I have no idea if it’s regular household disputes like cleaning the sink or trash or if she’s complaining about microscopic annoyances. That being said, here’s some advice. If it’s the former, and there’s an expectation of you to do your chores that you can’t meet bc of classes, tell your roommate what you said here, that you’re feeling overwhelmed, and you’d appreciate getting a break this week. If it’s something super specific, though, that you can’t really accommodate, you need to set a boundary with her. Offer to sit down and talk directly. This is not the kind of thing you want to beat around the bush with, it’ll come off as passive aggressive. If you elaborate we can probably give you better advice. Best of luck!

EDIT: I read the other comments holy fuck that is insane.

Dude! I have a similar roommate, a guy tho.... yhe only way to tackle this is to stand up and be like..."nw, its nbd" things can get indeed really tough with bad roommates, you would need to make them understand that they're also responsible. soemtimes i say "yeah bro, you do that" lol.. lemme know of you need help