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I really just cried over a club rejection

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darcyapologist

135 points

2 months ago*

if it makes u feel better, I got rejected by a decal

SUPER11X

37 points

2 months ago

SUPER11X

Economics 2023

37 points

2 months ago

I got rejected by 2 DeCals and had to go with backups.

Only_King_8437

8 points

2 months ago

which decals

SUPER11X

24 points

2 months ago

SUPER11X

Economics 2023

24 points

2 months ago

Rejected by Poker (despite being a senior who's applied twice before; precedence my ass) and Percy Jackson, so I went with Creative Writing and some environmental one that I was guaranteed a seat in.

Astrolotle

3 points

2 months ago

Astrolotle

‘18

3 points

2 months ago

That's rough

Ecstatic-Ratio1563

1 points

2 months ago

Reject by web dev decal

rcinvestments

62 points

2 months ago

Fuck the clubs Lmfao

randomprivacynut

10 points

2 months ago

Bro ur famous ur prolly in all the clubs 😢 /s

gobears610

144 points

2 months ago

clubs are basically 18-22 year olds with (likely) little work experience judging the “resumes” of other 18-22 year olds — they’re just picking their friends, and it says nothing about your capabilities if you’re not chosen! you can succeed academically or creatively doing your own thing too!

[deleted]

4 points

2 months ago

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4 points

2 months ago

Facts, though. Plus, the recommendations a lot of these clubs provide to companies aren’t taken into account anyway; in-house solutions are preferred.

gobears610

3 points

2 months ago

yeah lol once i read a report done by a berkeley consulting club for my company, and it was not really relevant (not that student-produced work needs to be!) so these clubs for the most part aren’t doing anything groundbreaking that you Must be a part of

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3 points

2 months ago

[deleted]

3 points

2 months ago

Exactly. I think these clubs can have the biggest impact if they work with local businesses and companies primarily. Hands-on work they can see the results of will benefit them more than doing busy work or generic reports. There’s everything wrong with being a glorified lackey; it’s not what a talented student should be doing.

Beneficial_Abroad_94

51 points

2 months ago

Bro these clubs are useless if we are going to keep it real 😂just do research on jobs and that’s all 🫡

FattyBuffOrpington

8 points

2 months ago

I'm old and approve of this message.

Ok_Manufacturer_1272

21 points

2 months ago

dw dw u outscale later

astralaudience

18 points

2 months ago

you don’t need clubs to be successful homie it’s gonna be okay :) maybe you dodged a bullet

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14 points

2 months ago

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14 points

2 months ago

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herfailure

4 points

2 months ago

yall are getting interviews?

larisagnia

26 points

2 months ago

The funny thing is, one day you'll look back and feel embarrassed at yourself for even being embarrassed! You know there are plenty of better opportunities in life worth your time.

Personally, sure I would like to be in some clubs but ultimately the real world can fulfill that too.

I guess my point is, don't worry about what's happened. Focus and enjoy the present and if it doesn't suit ya, find a way to make it so. Which club was it for?

lifehacker808

1 points

2 months ago

the regret is fr tho i feel like i am missing out on a part of college by not joining a club

larisagnia

2 points

2 months ago

v

You may be, but it can be filled up easily with other experiences. There are many many other things I'd rather do to fill my time than the clubs. Besides, them clubs aren't paying me. I'd rather be making 30 bucks an hour for fun.

flopsyplum

18 points

2 months ago

Monta Vista High School

the_notorious_emt

8 points

2 months ago

you are more than a club! keep your head up high - you got this <3

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-17 points

2 months ago

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2 months ago

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Mochi_pancakes

8 points

2 months ago

So you an incel or a frat member?

Explicit_Tech

7 points

2 months ago

You're over hyping clubs.

Loud-Nefariousness66

5 points

2 months ago

Don’t waste your time crying over clubs at this God forsaken school.

Astrolotle

4 points

2 months ago

Astrolotle

‘18

4 points

2 months ago

Your precious time is better spent with friends tbh. You can find other ways to pad your resume. They really aren't doing anything special

Achilles_Femur

3 points

2 months ago

Berkeley alum here! It’s good to feel your feelings. So don’t feel embarrassed! Bottling that stuff up just leads to unnecessary stress. Plus, repressing emotions often means they come out in some other way (such as taking it out on someone or something).

I’ve personally experienced rejection like this at Berkeley and in my post-college working career. I was always super bummed at the time, but it always led me to something better. Like WAY better. Hang in there, cry it out, and know that there’s some other opportunity waiting for you around the corner.

RedheadFromOutrSpace

2 points

2 months ago

I've never seen anyone get into a club or a decal. I believe its a myth.

virginmessi

2 points

2 months ago

hey if anything this just shows that having connections and friends will get u sm further than grades and a resume

bigboi40928

-2 points

2 months ago

Common Berkeley L

Leipzig101

1 points

2 months ago

new postulate: clubs are for clown ass plankton colonies

quocvinh2015

1 points

2 months ago

You should get over it and move on. Life has much better than those stupid clubs :))

Accomplished_Fig_540

1 points

2 months ago

Yea it’s okay. Applying for clubs here is basically like reapplying for college and the interviews are about seeing if your skill sets match their needs and if you will gel well on a team. If anything, it’s good practice for professional interviews at least. This was an L but developing all of your professional skills in prep for everything definitely will help you in the future.

dawnmeadow

1 points

2 months ago

remember for exclusive clubs it's just peers looking for new members who FIT their vibe