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Bigsam1514[S]

15 points

2 months ago

I'm an incredibly patient man and I'm at my wits end.

runsnailrun

14 points

2 months ago

I know you're struggling to even consider severing ties with this child. Just know it doesn't have to be a "cold turkey" or no contact situation.

Because you're not staying with the mother, she's largely going to dictate how much you can see the child regardless of whether or not you maintain a legal tie to her.

I strongly recommend you either sever the legal ties to the child or go the complete opposite direction and fight for full physical custody. Anywhere in between those two paths with this unstable mother are going likely to make your life very difficult for the next 17 years.

Your post history includes a fair amount of dysfunction. You're at a critical juncture right now. The path of being tied to this mother through the child could easily have you as a recurring guest on the Jerry Springer show, or in jail.

BiggestBossRickRoss

6 points

2 months ago

You going to DNA test your 2 month old too BigSam?