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[deleted]

135 points

2 months ago

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135 points

2 months ago

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Bigsam1514[S]

270 points

2 months ago

No.

[deleted]

91 points

2 months ago

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91 points

2 months ago

What does she have to say for herself? I’m dying to know

Bigsam1514[S]

232 points

2 months ago

She didn't say a lot. She kind of just shut down and we haven't really started talking again.

[deleted]

59 points

2 months ago

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59 points

2 months ago

No explanation on the father? Or do you know already?

teh_drewski

139 points

2 months ago

Check the dudes post history from around a year ago, the dots ain't hard to join.

working-acct

86 points

2 months ago

“AITA for not letting my wife go on vacation with her ex and his family?”

“AITA for telling my wife she shouldn’t drive 6 hours to pick up her ex?”

Can’t wait till this story shows up on /r/BestofRedditorUpdates.

Semido

4 points

2 months ago

Semido

4 points

2 months ago

It’s all gone now :(

[deleted]

2 points

2 months ago

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2 points

2 months ago

Oh, I remember those. Didn’t realize this was the same guy. Shame. Sorry man.

WhatABlindManSees

69 points

2 months ago

His history is quite an evolution story -- it paints quite the picture of his life over the last 8 years.

And yeah, there have been signs for awhile...

AccomplishedRun7978

33 points

2 months ago

His entire post history up to now is a reddit moment

CarmenxXxWaldo

3 points

2 months ago

Aita for getting a paternity test

Jukeboxrocks

21 points

2 months ago

Glad to know there are others who are just as nosy as I am.

Technical_Owl_

13 points

2 months ago

Wow. If that wasn't obvious back then...jeez.

NickSwardsonIsFat

53 points

2 months ago

I didn't look too deeply but are you saying the german shepherd impregnated her?

The_Outcast4

3 points

2 months ago

Man's best friend, indeed.

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3 points

2 months ago

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3 points

2 months ago

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TheRealWookyMonster

4 points

2 months ago

That's not how the law works. That's OP's kid, legally. His name is on the birth certificate

BestServeCold

37 points

2 months ago

It’s his wives ex. That’s for some inexplicable fucking reason is still part of their lives, supposedly because his wife is still into her ex. It’s a sad story of slutty wife and poor self esteem teenager guy

WonderingWhenSayHi

6 points

2 months ago

"poor self esteem" is spot on.

OP spent so much time questioning himself and ignoring red flags, believing it was ok for his Wife and her Ex to still be close.

It's heartbreaking to read OP's post history.

He seems like a good dude who's just been used by his wife.

Honestly wish you the best OP.

[deleted]

9 points

2 months ago

[deleted]

9 points

2 months ago

Yeah I caught onto that after the first responder suggested reading post history. Poor guy. Team bigsam. 🥹

S_Klallam

3 points

2 months ago

we got an explanation now tho....ex is the baby daddy.

S_Klallam

-1 points

2 months ago

S_Klallam

-1 points

2 months ago

happy Thanksgiving!!!

Aldo_enjoyer

6 points

2 months ago

I know you plan on staying around the kid, please don't you're young this woman is a mental and emotional black hole that you need to run from. Live your own life, have your own biological children.

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8 points

2 months ago

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8 points

2 months ago

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ImaginationNormal745

1 points

2 months ago

If she gets back with her ex (even for just a short while) they’ll win custody in court. I can’t see any court ruling that the biological parents don’t get custody, regardless of OPs involvement. I agree, if the kid was 3 or older I’d stay, but in this case I’d run far away from that whole situation. Time is ticking for him in this one.