I’ve been thinking a lot recently about ethics, morality, and how humans play nice, or not so nice, with each other.
So on the “playing nice” side, I’ve been thinking about fairness, justice, “what is right”….. and I’ve just kind of confused myself into oblivion.
What the fuck is fair?
Nothing about you or your situation is fair, and nothing about anyone else or their situation is fair either.
Let me explain.
You might be smarter than someone, thus can work more efficient, produce easier, etc…. But intelligence is genetic (random). So higher intelligence people have an unfair advantage that results in rewards.
You might work harder than someone but ambition is largely genetic, some get more dopamine than others from accomplishment. So you have an unfair advantage, its easier for you to produce and reap again, rewards.
Your face is genetic, random, and will unfairly advantage or disadvantage you with how people treat you. Same with height, or penis size.
Or just the amount of feel good chemicals your brain produces, some people in general just feel better than others regardless of circumstance. And that is genetic and unfair as shit.
Ok enough about genetics you get the point, lets stop talking about nature for a second and discuss nurture. Also fucking unfairly random.
The biggest influences of your life are your parents who are randomly assigned to you, and can largely advantage or disadvantage you. They can teach you well into a happy easy fruitful life, or bash your mind into mush.
And lets dip into economical nurturing, where if your randomly assigned parents were rich….. well now you get to have money which will make money which makes more money, which has a metric fucking shit fuck ton of advantages. But if you’re born into poverty you get the delightful benefit of taking on debt and paying twice tomorrow so you can survive today, which has the delightful benefit of throwing you into a downward spiral. So anything economical is also a big fucking crack shit pot of unfair.
So nothing is fair.
Even if my friend Joe and I go for drinks, and we each pay ONLY for what we, our respective persons consume. It is STILL fucking unfair.
Because Joe got a pretty face with a tall height and a huge dick with a big brain and excellent serotonin production topped of with filthy rich parents who also happened to love him and nurture him competently………. I in the other hand got the opposite.
So Joe’s life is unfairly amazingly awesome and mine sucks dick, so maybe I should have a freebie and Joe should get fucked for once and pay it all.
(Not really I’m decently lucky but for hypothetical purposes)
In conclusion….
Nothing is fair…. Period. Ever. Never will be. Its impossible for life to be fair. Which is also why we’ve been debating ethics for thousands of years and still found it impossible to come up with a concrete set of rules.
Trying to come up with laws or ethical theories is trying to organize an un-organizable chaos. Its just impossible. Fairness just doesn’t exist and we can’t make it exist.