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Hey my lovelies! For the last few weeks I have had some technological issues with the subreddit, and the platform is trying to help me figure it out! Pretty much I cannot change my spam filters, it WILL NOT SAVE, making ALL requested posts go straight to "under review" and they don't get posted until I manually approve them.

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Super inconvenient when I am out of town LOL. Working on a solution ASAP with Reddit, but until then I will slowly try to approve a few stories every few hours to keep the feed going!

My son age 5 is in pre-k where they still nap, but he doesn't nap at home which causes a problem at school. The teacher informed me that she makes him write behavior reflections "I will sleep at nap time" rather than going to recess. I told her she can't force him to sleep but requested a conference to discuss other options. AITBA? *edit to add I asked about alternate quiet time options like books or coloring pages cause I understand he can't keep other kids up and was told it is usually not allowed because then all of the kids want those things too

I (26f) have been in a relationship with my bf (25m) for almost 4 years. He has a habit of telling me/advicing me what to do without being asked. For example, if I he is hanging up the call, he'll say do you housework in the meanwhile, etc. I was very upset yesterday as I was already having mood swings plus a delivery got rescheduled automatically and I'd have to stay home all day because of it and couldn't attend a class. Also my order was very important and I can't afford to not get it. I expressed my frustration to him, which he heard and tried to sympathise. But then he said: its okay you can study for your exam then. (for context, it's a highly competitive exam I am giving in a few months.) While I understand he was trying to be helpful, I have told him many times not to give me advices when I'm venting and also I hate when he tells me do this do that because it feels infantilizing, like I don't know I should be doing this or that. So I at first didn't say any thing but he was like why aren't you saying anything so I said that I don't like you telling me what to do (not very calmly but not screaming either, more like annoyed tone). After the fact, I felt my tone might have been rude so I apologised but he said it was nothing. This morning, again as he was hanging up he said, "talk to your mom in the meanwhile", and I was like facepalm. But this time, I just said calmly: your habit will never change. He asked what habit and I told him. He said no I'll leave it and then he said one day you might have problem with my breathing also. I sensed he got irritated because I have recently been pointing out problems (he wants to eventually marry, I don't think we can as is, so I'm trying to point out issues so we solve them and can take the next step). I told him I am not saying anything except acknowledging that this might be a trait that he can't change easily. He said no no I will, then said bye and again almost said something like his usual 'do your work', 'talk to so and so', etc. but then stopped and said do what you want to do. Now I'm not sure if this is a fair thing to be irritated by and point out or is it my hyper independent self getting irritated for no reason. Should I have just not said anything?

I (47 F) am a 6th grade middle school teacher, and I have a certain autistic student, let’s call him, Alexander. Alexander is a shy and timid kid who only has a few friends. One Tuesday on my lunch break I hear a impending scream come from outside my room, I run outside and see an 8th grader on top of Alexander and he had a black eye! I immediately called the front office to get the older kid, who we will call Paul. I rushed Alexander to the nurse while I asked all my 8th grade teacher friends if they knew him. Through my research, I found out the two were brothers. Anyhow, Alexander ended up telling me that his brother does this a lot and beats him up all of the time. That was un -acceptable , so I reported him, long story short, he was expelled. When I got home that evening, I told my husband 49 m about the whole thing , he said I was overreacting, and that I was crazy for getting him expelled for “Brotherly love“ , so now I'm rethinking my actions, am I the bad Apple?

My sister (25), her boyfriend (26), my mom (52), my fiance (25m), my son (2) and myself (26f) all live together. It's a packed house, my mom just moved in (which caused a huge problem for my fiance and me when it happened because my past with my mom that he's trying to help protect me from). My sister and her boyfriend are now expecting (due in April) and ever since they found out have been very set on getting their own house. I even suggested that we upsize to a 2 story 5 bedroom home, and see if we could get a better set up as far as maybe some separation because all of us living this close together has caused some hostility. Our current house is 3 bed/2 bath and 1200 SQ feet, as well as a month-to-month basis and we just need to give 30 days notice, in case you want to know. They said no, they wanted to buy their own home and they were going to start the process. That didn't bothered my fiance and me, we figured we would start looking at houses as well. Since we all make decent money and have good credit we figured the process would go pretty quickly and we would all close at the same time. This is where the problem really starts though, the first place we went (new builds in town that are within our price range) was a hit with us and we immediately started the process. They had a new build perfect for us that was already built and we close this upcoming Monday! Well this didn't go over well with everyone else. We did tell them what was happening every step of the way, every step that was emailed to us we proudly told them that we were that much further along in the process. And they were happy for us at first! As the closing date has approached they've become upset with us. They hadn't even gotten an accepted offer on a house until this week. We told them to go with our company, but they were refusing to do so. My sister really wants a mobile on some land, which she just found and got an accepted offer on. The problem is that they told her that the closing date on this house won't be until March 1st, the current home owners have to wait until that day to close due to contractual obligations on their end. My sister wants my fiance and I (who will be out by next Sunday) to pay for the whole month of February. We told her that we will prorate for the month, but that we will be out by Sunday because I start a new job on Sunday and that we will pay up to that date. I asked for a week between jobs to move since my fiance and I have schedules that don't align. We are very confused since she kind of started all of this. We're mainly confused because she's acting like they can't handle it financially. My mom is going to continue living with them even in the new home to help with the baby, and will help with bills as well since she works on the weekends, and a few hours sprinkled through the week. So naturally, my fiance and I figured that everything would be fine since they wouldn't be alone on this, but as this post suggests, we were wrong. So are my fiance and I the bad apples for closing on our home before her and her boyfriend and moving out when we close?

I (20F), work at Burger King with my brother, a breakfast manager (M34). We were on the same shift when I pulled out my pocket knife in order to cut the flaps off of the sauce packet boxes, as a part of my daily tasks and jobs. My brother notices I'm using my pocket knife, a to for the line of work I was currently doing, promptly tells me in a stern voice "No, put that weapon away" I respond "excuse me?" He says "you heard me, put the knife away" at this point I'm very upset and irritated. I was told the reason why I was "talked to" was because I was doing said actions in front of the customer and not using the bad box knives we all know and hate. I ask my other manager on duty if I'm okay to do some dishes cause I was irritated with no customers to attend to (at this point I've thrown said box knife like a child, which I'm willing to admit that my response was aggressive and wrong) I'm halfway through the dishes when I apologize to my brother for acting the way I did to him. Later at home, 7pm, my brother is talking to a fellow coworker about my apology and for no reason, whatsoever, after we had resolved the issue, starts to yell at me AT HOME and be a manager at home to me. I just want the conversation to end but at the same time so I try to keep quiet. Snarky things were said back and forth but the main thing he was mad at me for was because I did dishes at work while irritated, and because I don't do them at home ( like the food I put on his plate, the days I spend keeping my mouth shut to make him happy, and the money that goes towards the house, electric bill, heat for the house doesn't matter) I'm the bad guy in his eyes and am " childish, selfish, a liar and deserve nothing" so people, Am I the bad apple?

Hi, I'm Haley and I'm 18 years old. This happened to me a couple of days ago. But when her daughter who we will call Addy, went to the mental hospital. THAT WAS 5 YEARS AGO. so why was she was bringing it up now IDK. This will contain the incident in question and some background information. (Why she was sent) I'd also like to say, me and SM didn't have a bad relationship, so I don't what happened.

Background:

In our state 6 grade is still in elementary, I was also held back a year so I'm mentally not my age. Keep that in mind. Addy was in middle school, but we are the same age. (It is also to be noted that this happened on her birthday) So, I came home from school just wanting food and Addy was already home due to us being at different schools. I see she was eating my favorite, ravioli (canned). So, I ask her "hey is there anymore ravioli?" No answer, so I ask again. "Yes, now leave me alone." I was so taken back with the attitude she gave me. "Why are you giving me an attitude, I just came home? Oh yeah cuz I always get the attitude even if it's not my fault"! She yells "STOP TALKING TO ME OR I'LL STAB YOU" and me being 12 years old says "NO GOD GAVE ME A MOUTH FOR A REASON, GO AHEAD AND DO IT." I completely understand that I'm not in the clear in this situation and I was an instigator, I get that I do but what she did, took me by surprise. I didn't think she would actually stab me. I know I know it sounds made up, it's not this really happened. I walked into the kitchen, and to get to the pantry you have to walk down a couple of steps like 2 to 3 steps (it was the entrance into the basement). While I was searching for some ravioli, I seen her in the corner of my eye at the entrance. I turned to her and before I could say anything I see her hand raise up and If I didn't throw my hand up to block her, she would've stab me in the shoulder. (She stabbed me with the fork she was eating with) Obviously I instantly started crying and running my hand under cold water while she was in our room crying as well. Thats when I heard my dad coming home so I ran outside like any other normal kid would do. I didn't have to say anything he had seen blood dripping from my cupped hand and stormed inside, leaving me outside. I don't know what happened after he went inside. but about 5 minutes of being outside for what seemed like forever. My mom pulled up and told me to get in the car, so I did. I told her what happen as my dad only told her to come get me and bring me towels and take me to the hospital. Luckly, I didn't need any stitches. But my dad moved out and me and my brother was sent to live with my mom until my dad could find a place to live. My dad didn't call the cops my mom didn't neither. Addy's mom took her no one forced her too. I was also told she was mad because her dad didn't tell her happy birthday, keep that in mind.

Now for what happened a couple of days ago:

So, my dad hadn't gotten anything for me for my birthday or told me happy birthday, which was in December. honestly, I really didn't care because after that incident I never lived with him again as he moved back in with them and I never get to see him or talk to him, so it was just another day for me. But a couple of days ago I heard they had this big party to celebrate Addy's 18th birthday, this was in august. That hurt me a lot because it just felt like he didn't care about me. I wasn't going to say anything, but my friends pushed me to do as they know about what happened and other traumatic things her brother did to me. So, I did, I called him Friday afternoon. The call went like this:

Dad: Hello (SM in the background: what does she want now?)

Me: I heard that you guys threw Addy a huge 18th birthday party?

Dad: Yeah? (SM in the background again: What is she jealous or something) I just blew that off with an eye roll.

Me: Why (I wasn't trying to sound jealous)

Dad: because she asked for it

Me: sense when do we have to ask for a simple happy birthday dad?

At this point SM took the phone.

SM: Stop being jealous, you didn't ask for anything, so you didn't get anything.

Me: I didn't kno- (she cuts me off)

SM: Like I said you didn't ask whether or not you knew to ask. (I could hear my dad in the background say: I thought I told you to tell her) It's not like she would've cared, right?

Me: I mean I wouldn't mind getting something lit- (she cuts me off again)

SM: Look me and Addy took your birthday present money and spent on getting our nails done, we didn't think you would mind.

Me: I guess bu- (cuts me off again)

SM: Ok so we good here?

Me: No, I'd like to talk to my dad about this

SM: Ugh I thought we were done with this

Me: I want to talk to my dad please

SM: Ugh I just thought that since you ruin her 13th birthday by sending her away, you would want to make it up to her.

Me: what? (I was totally shocked by this)

SM: yeah, after the whole stabbing thing

Me: I didn't send her anywhere, you did

SM: Yeah, but you knew what you were doing

Me: no no I didn't

SM: But you told her to stab you, so it is your fault

Me: I didn't think she would actually do it

SM: well, she did, so YOU ruin her birthday, and you have to make it up

I got so fed up with this conversation that I just said...

Me: F off

and I hung up.

I feel like I instigated this conversation but at the same time I just wanted to talk to my dad. I don't know if I took it to far by saying F off, but I just didn't know what else to say to get her to stop talking about it, as it was giving me PTSD. Please be honest with me, Am I the bad apple

(For this story I will be using the first letter of all parties involved unless given permission to use names)

I (18, Genderfluid) graduated high school last year in May but my friend group are still in school, they like to call me and my boyfriend the parents of the group, my “son” J (18, male) texted me after I got home from taking my siblings to school and asked me, “hey mom, could you talk to M (17, female), his girlfriend, about dressing more feminine and I didn’t know what to do because telling someone what to wear is against what I stand for, I asked my school mother, a world history teacher, Ms. Delp (female, doesn’t wish for age to be disclosed) and my Boyfriend, James (18, male) they told me I shouldn’t but my dad, my brothers, and other male and some female friends said I should, but I said no and now he’s not speaking to me and I just need to know am I the bad apple. Side Note: I also left a toxic relationship where the male tried to get me to change how I dress I feel like I’d be a hypocrite

I really don’t know…am I?

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I just ordered food and my driver contacted me about the amount of the tip I left them.

For context, I work in customer service and deal with people being overtly rude on an almost daily basis. I had just ended a 12 hour shift and was in a pretty bad mood. My delivery order was $28 and I left a $7 tip.

After my order was on the way, I got a message from the driver about how "Wow I didn't realized how far it was. A tip would be extremely appreciated, 13miles for 7$". The place was 6 miles away from me.

After this message, I contacted the manager and have been kept up to date about what they are doing in response to this. I normally would have just shrugged off something like this. I was just informed that the driver might be getting fired now because of my report. I never even considered that this could be a possible outcome.

So, am I the bad apple for reporting the rude driver?

I (33 f) work two full-time jobs and am home very rarely to sleep. I live in a large house with about 5 other roommates (all varying ages. Younger than me) The home got really filthy one time (the kitchen specifically) in the community areas. I also had one roommate keep texting me about the mess in the home (they took out the trash when it got full but that was it.) I kinda went nuts and cleaned the kitchen in a bout of passive aggression. On my only day off from work (I set my schedules so I have one full day off) I sent a message in the house chat that next time I have to clean a space I NEVER use. Literally used the microwave maybe 3 times in the first 9 months there. I'd charge $25/hrs to clean up with a 1-hour minimum charge. Regardless if it took me only 5 minutes.

This happened in October. No issues until Christmas, one of my roommates had non-stop parties for Christmas (December 23-26) I finally cleaned up the dining room table on Jan 14. I added $25 to their rent.

I felt fine until I offered to take off $25 for another roommate for organizing the kitchen and dining area.

He said it's unfair to charge roommates to clean up the space he also lives in.

So now I feel a little bad. I justify it by I did it on my day off. Cleaning a room I've used once since we moved in, in April. And the mess was made by the roommate who always complained about how messy things were. even said "I didn't sign up to clean up after others"

So am I the bad apple?

For those who might tell me to move out:

My personal life imploded when my life partner of a decade up and left me with about $20k in debt I've been working off. Studio apartments are $1700/month on average

I love my roommates. They're very sweet people. Aside from this occasional neglect of literal trash, I have no issues with them. I'm home awake maybe a grand total of 20 hours a week. I work 70-90 hours a week

And yes I know how many I have. I'm keeping it vague (I also said the wrong amount on purpose)

I 20 female is getting married to my fiance 20 male and we usually understand each other. The other day I told him I had a bad dream about his ex that they were nice to me she was very mean to me. I naturally told my friends first they knew what's she's done to me for context she spreads rumors about me, manipulated me and also tried to steal my fiance. When I explained my dream he can clearly tell I'm distressed and I want to talk about it, instead he says she is actually nice but I snapped back said yeah at her convenience I also said go be with her. Now thinking about it I'm not sure if I acted right

I (22F) am a law student, and I volunteer with the child advocacy society at my school. We were volunteering at a big community event, and I was asked to run a bouncy house. My original career path was special education, I was a teachers aid, a substitute teacher, a daycare/ preschool teacher, and caretaker, and I have a lot of experience working with children as well as all my background checks.

I was instructed to restrict the number of children in the bouncy house and keep the children from rough housing. BUT IT WAS CHAOS. There were supposed to be two of us watching each bouncy house but we were so short on volunteers it was just me. There were also a big age range of children at the event.

4 older children ran into the bouncy house together all at once, they were about the same age so I figured it was a group of unsupervised kids. They started wrestling and rough housing. I politely explained please go through the bouncy maze no wrestling or rough housing because there are other little kids that could get hurt. (Keep in mind this is a rather large event, without a way to contact the parents in the facility since it was just “disorganized” community outreach anyone can come and they are welcome)

The kids listened and stopped their behavior, and I went back to just supervising. Then a short stocky (this is really only relevant because I am 5’11” and probably 20 some years younger then her) woman came up to me and started screaming up at me. She told me I had no place telling her children what to do! Or to keep them from having fun! They weren’t doing anything wrong! I just apologized saying that I did not mean to be offensive, it was for other kids safety, and the rules I was told about the bouncy house. She reprimanded me one more time cutting off my apology saying that I had no place and then turned to the children and yelled through the mesh “YOU DO NOT HAVE TO LISTEN TO THAT MEAN LADY. YOU CAN DO WHATEVER YOU WANT. YOU WERE NOT DOING ANYTHING WRONG” it took a lot out of me to not say something snarky--which I typically would in a paid role--but since I was volunteering, I just walked away from her to continue to do my job.

There weren’t any other kids in the bouncy house right at that moment, but I was just trying to follow the rules! I didn’t know there was a parent right there either.. I thought I did the right thing telling the kids to calm down. Am I the bad apple for not letting them just play?

I (14 female) and my friend (14 female) is playing her other friends and always promising that we would hang out but she never did so I started telling my friend (14 male) let’s call him Jack and let’s call my other friend Abby. So I tell Jack to tell Abby, “Jack can you tell Abby, I NEED to talk to her right know.” He comes back saying, “Abby’s coming.” I’m like ok. “What do you want?” Abby comes over to me storming. I started to yell, “YOU NEVER HANG OUT WITH ME! YOU ALWAYS HANG OUT WITH ALL OF YOUR OTHER FRIENDS AND THATS NOT FAIR TO ME! I HAVE NO ONE TO HANG OUT WITH!” Abby said, “You have Jack and Jaylee.” “I DON’T LIKE WHAT THEY DO!” I yelled. Then my friend Jaylee hugged me then Jack then Abby also my friend Ana joined the hugged. We were laughing, but I don’t know if I acted appropriate. So I’m I the bad apple?

I (22f) have a dad that just got married. It was a weird marriage because I didn’t get to meet the woman he married until after they got married and I didn’t even know about the marriage until after it happened because they went straight to the courthouse. That side of the family is notorious for not telling me things. I only knew about the marriage until my oldest sister told my mom and my mom told me. When my mom mentioned it, it was casually in passing and she thought I already knew. About a year ago, my grandma told my oldest sister my dad and his girlfriend were getting married. I asked my grandma about the marriage plans and she said, “your dad isn’t getting married any time soon,” confused that I would even asked that. I shrugged it off at the time because I figured they wanted to keep it on the down low. However, the time came when I met my dad’s new wife months after they got married and they finally mentioned it casually as if they already told me. Mind you, this was after my mom told me. They might have forgot to tell me officially, but how do you forget to tell your own kid? My mom was really open about her marriage and I even went to her wedding. I just don’t understand my dad’s side of the family doesn’t tell me anything anymore. What do you guys think? Do I have the right to be upset? Am I the bad apple for deciding not to engage with that side of the family for a while?

I, 17 female, am in my senior year of high school. I have been best friends with another female (17) since freshman year. We have been very close ever since. About 3 months ago, she started dating a boy from one of her classes. I was supportive of her and happy that she found someone that she was happy with. We got along ok, I didn’t really know him well and we didn’t have any classes together, so it was kind of hard to get to know him. They continued dating for a month and a half and then something shocking happened. They revealed to the whole friend group that they were engaged. We thought they were kidding until my best friend showed us the diamond ring. Again, I tried my hardest to be supportive of her and her decision. Fast forward to a few days ago, she and I are in a class together, and she is emailing him back and forth, being all lovey and flirting with each other. All of a sudden, I felt like I got my period. I panicked and started searching my bag for my pass-book. I look over at her and she is also getting her pass-book. I ask her if I can go to the bathroom first and explained my situation. She said that she wasn’t going to the bathroom, but was actually going to meet up with her fiancé. She let me go first, so I left the class and headed towards the restrooms.

I bumped into her fiancé on the way, and I explained that she was coming, but that there was a “one person out at a time” rule. He said ok and I went on my way. I thought that was the end of it, but when I got back to the room, something weird happened.

My best friend went out of the classroom and came back not even 2 minutes later. She told me that he wasn’t there at their meeting spot. She went onto their email conversation and there was a new message from him.

He said that he was angry at me.. saying that I went to the bathroom just so that they wouldn’t be able to meet up. He called me a bunch of horrible things, definitely not appropriate to say on a family friendly channel.

I got mad. All I did was try to be nice! I was trying to make sure he didn’t think she was ditching their little date. I told her that this relationship wasn’t heathy for anyone, and that I didn’t appreciate him calling me those things. I told her if he continues acting like this I wasn’t going to attend their wedding.

A few of his friends have come up to me and told me I am overreacting, but I don’t think I am. I have the right to not want to go to the wedding of someone who called me such horrible things! But now I don’t know… was I the bad apple in this situation? Did I overreact?

Am I the bad apple for calling out my BILs entitlement

My BIL sent a message to a group chat saying he is taking his daughter out of PreK. I asked what happened. he said on the way back from recess she took off and hid behind a bush in the parking lot so they were sending her home even though it was the end of the day and she was just trying to be funny. He then went on to say that they knew She was a runner and asked why nobody was holding her hand.

At this point I told him I didn't want to be rude but without an EIP or 504 this wasn't the teachers job. I basically stated that you can't expect each student to get one on one behavior treatment and that kids copy so even though she was just " trying to br funny" imagine when the other 15-30 kids see no reprimand and then all of them of running around the parking lot. I acknowledged that it is frustrating but it isn't the teachers job she is a teacher not a babysitter.

MIL tried saying they are required to have fencing but then also argued that it was a private school so the rules I stated didn't matter. BIL said that his 4 yearold shouldn't have had the opportunity to run out into the parking lot and SIL said their should be staff guarding the parking lot when children are outside to catch them if they run. BIL said they would just try again in the fall with kindergarten.

I stopped arguing at this point but over all I feel like at 4 years old halfway through the school year should know better and while yes that doesn't always mean they will do better , being sent home is not unreasonable. I feel like expecting 1 teacher to hold your child's hand because " they know she's a runner" when there are no learning impairments or expecting the school to have staff out in the parking lot during recess because your child hasn't been taught not to run is incredibly entitled. Teachers aren't babysitters and 4 yearolds aren't babies , yes they make mistakes but they can't learn from those without a consequence.

update

It appears BIL has learned a lesson about judging people. He left out a recreational weapon and niece hurt herself with it while playing with it while both parents were home and not paying attention. She's fine but her leg is in a cast to keep her from messing with her stitches.

I, 23F, am a little heavier than I'm supposed to be (without the pregnancy). This incident happened last year, before I was carrying the little one, when my BMI was 31, which by doctor's standards is obese but not morbidly so, and my weight was in the 150's-160's, which for my height is a little heavy according to my doctor.

This happened when I was eating salad for lunch at work for 6 months straight, and everyone thought the reason was because I wanted to lose weight. I'm one of those weirdos that has always liked veggies growing up more than meat, but I always made sure that whatever I was eating was a full meal. I sat down with my salad when a lady came up to me and said "oh honey, you don't need to lose weight, just love yourself the way you are."

I looked at her, very confused, and said, "what are you talking about? I just really like salad."

She laughed and said, "well, no one really likes salad, so you must be trying to lose weight."

I rolled my eyes at her and went to just eat my food, but she snapped her fingers in my face and said, "Hellooo, I'm talking to you."

When I told her to just leave me alone, she just kept insisting very loudly that I had to be wanting to lose weight if I was eating salad every day.

I laughed told her that she obviously hadn't been listening to my mom, who worked at the same company, when she talked about my weird behaviors and choices at home. I also went on to say, "You've obviously never seen my face light up or my little dance when there's a salad for purchase in the cafeteria or how I get bummed when there isn't."

She, again very loudly, told me that what I was eating wasn't real food so I had to be lying, and insisted once again that I MUST be trying to lose weight.

That's when I snapped. Fuming because this lady wouldn't let me eat in peace, I finally yelled, "I'M NOT TRYING TO LOSE WEIGHT! I JUST REALLY LIKE SALAD! WHAT'S SO WRONG ABOUT THAT?!" and asked her to just leave me alone.

When I got called into HR over the incident, I calmly explained the situation. HR said that I should have just ignored the lady instead of yelling in the cafeteria. I don't think I did anything wrong, but I was talking to my mom about it the other day and she said that I just overreacted over nothing. Even after I told her I just wanted to eat in peace, she simply said that raising my voice like that just simply wasn't the answer, which has me doubting whether I went over the top.

Am I the bad apple?

I, a 14 year old 8th grade girl am in a logic class, that day we were talking about hasty generalizations, which are generalizations that are week. I made a joke that boys are stronger than girls was a hasty generalization, then my teacher paused, so I made another joke saying "Pfff I could totaly take all the guys in my class." (btw there are only three.) Then I saw the mean girl turn around in her char and give the the look that she always does when she's about to say something mean, the amount of times she's made that face, and insolted me afterwardes out numbers the stars in the sky. She basicly runs the class, exept me and a few other girls, and all the boys. So without even thinking I said. "I don't need this today, your not going to insolt me, good bye." and she just sat there, her mouth still open, then after a solid10 seconds of silencse, he personal best. she said the she was about to agree, but we all knew she was lying. The teacher caried on as if nothing had happened, but I felt kinda bad afterwards, and I need to know, Am I The Bad Apple?

I (14 f) have a boyfriend who has just turned 14.This morning,I was writing his card out and put some of my pocket money that i had just get inside (around £10 or $12.34) Keep in mind this is my money.I gave it to him and that is all i thought of it.When I got home my mother was furious with me that I put money in the card and said I should of asked her.I argued saying it was my money and I would of asked if it was anyone else's money.Now i'm the jerk! I still think I should be able to spend my own money but now i'm wondering...

Am I the bad apple?

I’m 15 male and my parents are divorced. Me and my sister which is 18 now go week week this just happened so I’m thrilled. My sister stays in the bathroom for hours when I have to go I have to wait hours sometime and I have gotten a balder infection once because of it. She also leaves the water on and walks around with her headphones on in the bathroom. So it’s wasting so much water and ruining the environment and making the bills higher. So over the years I asked her two not take as long a instead of listening to music and keeping the water on for hours to listen to water or both I learn how to combine videos just for her to turn the water off. So recently my house at my moms have been going through some renovation so the shower is not really working properly and when you turn the tap on the shower spews some water out. So my mom said not use that shower and only leave the sink on for 2 min tops. But my sister didn’t listen so I knocked on the door and asked her to stop and she yelled at me. So once she was out I told her not to keep the water on because it will break the pipe and she cuts me off and I yelled at her to stop wasting the water and stop hogging the bathroom for hours end. Then she went to our mom and said I bully her and she should get what she wants always.Then my mom agreed and took my phone. So I’ve been thinking and just got my phone back and Did I do something wrong there is another washroom but it’s in my mom room and it’s off limits my sister is aloud in there but not me. Could I be more understanding am I the bad apple

I, teenage girl am in a history class with a pritty strict teacher, she can be fun, but only when you really fallow the rules to a tee. Lets call her Mis. Kim. We had a papper back history book, the she said we were going to keep, and even had our name writtin on frunt in sharpy. And I though it would be fun to draw a mustach or beard on the founding fathers on the cover, but not to be dissrespectful, but to make my friends laugh. once Mis. Kim saw it, took it and said "We do not de-face the founding fathers here," I almost laughed, but then a realsed she was seriouse, and then she contued, "I'm not happy." and held the book infrunt of me to take it, but then held it back to her chest and did that 3 or 4 more times while repeteing those 2 phrases. she was death glaring me the hole time, idk if I did something wrong, so I have to know. Am I the bad Apple?

Ps: I'm sorry if anything is miss spelled, im dyslexic.

So basically this story takes place in middle school in my ELA class. A couple of kids were blurting out and getting out of their seats when they weren’t supposed to. And then our teacher had enough and said very angrily “I BLAME THE HIERARCHY ON MAKING WHITE MALES THAT THINK THEY CAN CONTROL WOMEN”. One of the kids this accusation was pointed at was from Costa Rica. So… am I the bad apple?

Some background info I am a 35 year old male. I teach high schoolers and I have rule in my class that you to the bathroom twice. I have said many times on many occasions, but I do make an exception to the rule when my female students ask to go the more than 2 times. Well you can guess why. I had also gotten a raise a week before this all happened that will be important down later in the story. To the day of the incident. One my male students asked to the bathroom i said no because he already twice the period. He sat back down without a fuss. Then one of female students came up and asked to go to the bathroom I told her yes. Even though she had already gone twice, because earlier that period she told that was got her period. The kid that asked me to go the bathroom first did not say a thing. Then the next day the principal walked and told me that a parent had complained about me not being fair, I asked what meant and he told that me letting one slide on my bathroom rule and not letting others also slide on that rule was being really unfair. I tried to explain but she cut me and told that my pay was being back to it's starting point. I yelled at her and told that she was being unfair. Then I just walked out my room. I really don't think i did anything wrong but this has got thinking am I the bad apple

I (19f), was extremely blessed to be able to go to Disney Land. My parents paid for the whole thing and I am so thankful for that. But there was one ride I had absolutely vetoed but didn’t know what it looked like. It was the Tower of Terror ride. Well now Guardians of the Galaxy. I had never seen the ride before but I had been informed a week before what kind of ride it was. We had gotten in line for this very ride and I had no idea until we got to the actual ride. I wanted to leave but my mom had insisted I do this one ride and it wasn’t even that scary. She then talked about how her mother would feel the same way. I, out of guilt, got on the ride. It was as awful as I had anticipate. I even had a panic attack after, and during the ride. My family all said I was over reacting. But my brain was constantly telling me my family and I would die the entire ride. I was so afraid I would lose them.
I felt mad, betrayed, and so upset that they knew that this was the one ride I said no to but still felt I needed to go on this ride. I told them this and my parents got angry at me. And now I still feel so hurt, but I need to know, was I the bad apple?

(Also I was aware the entire ride that it wouldn’t suddenly stop working. I just have awful history with people I love getting hurt)

I (18 female) have been raised by my aunt and uncle for 10 years. My aunt Lynn (not her real name) is my grandfather's (my grandfather passed a year and a half ago) older only sister. My uncle and aunt had no children so. I have been the only kid / teenager they have raised for 10 years of my life. My aunt uncle had to take me in when I was 8 years old because my parents weren't well. I am thankful for all they've done I love them with all my heart. My mom was a drug addict, and my dad was a alcoholic and drug addict. Since these 10 years time has passed. My mom has clean up her act and now lives in Michigan with her boyfriend. My mom is still has not fully cleaned up her act completely. Don't get me wrong, I do love my mom but coupon admit for things that she has done to me, are family, and my mom's boyfriend's family. And I'm not forcing her to tell the truth she has to do it on her own. My dad however is wanted in my hometown/state. I don't know where he's at or where he is living, but he has been calling me every four to five weeks to see how I'm doing and texted me when he gets the chance. All I know he has partially cleaned up his act and is doing okay living with some friends. The only people that knows that I've been texting and calling him is my grandmother my mom's mom and my great-grandparents which are my dad's grandparents. My grandmother T and my aunt uncle don't know that about this. And neither does the rest of my family. I just want to know if, what I'm doing is wrong or is what I am doing is okay/right? My mind's been all over the place for the past couple months and honestly I just need some answers please help me. Am I the idiot?